You grow up in a world where everyone plays something. Social networks, school, work, even relationships. But what if it's not about being a “better version of yourself,” but about being yourself at all? This article will show you why authenticity is stronger than image — and how it affects your relationship with God and others. If you feel like you're remodeling yourself sometimes, but at the same time you crave something real, this is for you.
Tell me honestly — how many times have you caught yourself wearing a mask today? Maybe you pretended in front of your parents that everything was fine, even if something was bothering you. Maybe at school or at work you played the role of the person that others expect — funny, capable, confident. And then you came home... and everything fell. Tired, lost, alone. Maybe you feel that way more often than you care to admit.
We live in a world where image is valued. More important than being is look. But at the same time, we all know deep down that the disguise sucks us. And that somewhere deep within us is the desire to be real. That's true. It's real.
And this is what Jesus spoke of in a rather sharp but liberating sermon.
When Jesus is not silent
Jesus had a reputation as a kind and merciful teacher. But then comes the moment when he turns to the religious leaders of his time and tells them, “Hypocrites! “And not once. He repeats it over and over again. “Actors Guild.” “Whitewashed graves.” “Blind leaders.” These are not words of comfort. This is a harsh reality that has one reason: Hypocrisy.
The Pharisees, the spiritual elite of their time, looked outwardly perfect. They knew everything about God, they had people's respect, they did the “right” deeds -- but only when someone was watching. Jesus calls it acting. They gave alms, prayed in the streets... but not because they cared about others or God. They were all about applause. About likes. About the public impression.
And Jesus says: “They have their reward. “ People applaud them. But God? He's silent.
Why are we remaking ourselves?
Because we're scared. What if others don't see us as good enough? What if they find that we have doubts, that we are not spiritual enough, successful enough, “cool” enough?
So let's put on a mask. Outwardly confident, strong, maybe even “believing”. Inside uncertain, weak, lost.
But the problem is that the preform only works for a while. He'll catch up with you eventually. Not because someone outed you. But because you yourself stop knowing who you really are.
And at that moment Jesus comes. Not with an accusation, but with a challenge. Come out of the roll. Take off the mask. And let's be real.
Truth as a Revolution
Jesus says in Matthew 6:
“When you do a favor, do not show it. Don't let your left hand know what your right hand is doing. And your Father, who sees what is hidden, will repay you. “
This isn't just religious instruction. That's a lifestyle challenge.
Imagine that you have done a good deed — and you won't tell anyone. You don't post it on Instagram, you don't tag it between speeches, you just do it... just like that. For the other. For God's sake.
It's odd, isn't it? Everything in us craves recognition. But true freedom comes when you find that it is enough for you to be fulfilled that God sees you. Not followers, not bosses, not neighbors. Just Him.
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Who am I, anyway?
One of the hardest questions a young person can ask himself. Who am I when no one is watching? When no one kisses me, admires me, pats me on the shoulder?
And it is at these moments that bread is broken. Because if you are only yourself when others confirm you, you'll never really find yourself.
But when you learn to be authentic -- even if it hurts, even if it's embarrassing, even if it doesn't deserve applause -- you start living. The fact of living. Without filter. Without a script. Without a role.
God doesn't want your image. He wants you
Jesus does not invite people to be “better Christians.” He says, “Be real.” And that means weak. It's failing. He's struggling. But honest.
You know what's best? God knows you down to the last detail, yet He loves you. You don't have to convince Him of your worth. You don't have to earn it. He's been seeing her a long time ago.
And more than anything, she longs for a relationship. Not after your performance, not after your good deeds “for show.” But after thee. After your real face. Even with imperfections.
Practically: How to live for real?
Try to start with small steps:
- Don't publicize every good you do. Keep something between you and God.
- Be honest with yourself. Recognize where you play theater -- and why.
- Ask God in prayer: Who am I without a mask? “And then listen.
- Be who you are, even if you are not perfect. God can handle it better than you.
The world wants real people
You've got a lot of people around you who are struggling too. They also have masks. And maybe it's your decision to be yourself that appeals to them the most.
The Church is not about people who look perfect. It's a place where we admit to ourselves we're on our way. And that we want to go together. With God. No pretense.
Conclusion
Maybe you've been looking for something that fills you up for a long time. Maybe you felt like you had to be better than you are. Maybe you were afraid someone would expose you.
But Jesus today says: “Take off the mask. You're not an actor. You're a beloved person. “
And that's the beginning of something really powerful. A relationship that is not afraid of the truth. A relationship where you can finally be yourself.
Life without filter. Living with God. For real.
If this article appeals to you, share it with someone who may also need to hear that he may not be perfect -- just real. And if you want to be part of a community of people trying to live the same way, we look forward to seeing you at SafePoint. Not for the show. Because of the relationship.
Because of God who loves you just as you are.
